Lucy Lopez

The secret life of Habits

Have you ever noticed how something that you do routinely and frequently like playing a tune on your favourite instrument or singing a song from the distant past or driving to a particular destination or recalling a phone number is never a problem when you do it at the usual speed that you would normally

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Forgiving can be a hard thing

Forgiving can be a hard thing.  A very hard thing. Why do I say that? Because it feels hard. It feels like we’re being asked to do something superhuman. But we’re only human, aren’t we? Why should I, the victim, the recipient, of someone else’s awfulness, recklessness,  childishness, lovelessness… be the one to give in and

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