Lucy Lopez

The Human condition, Our Two Realities, Suffering, Struggle and our Hidden Wholeness

The Human condition, Our Two Realities, Suffering, Struggle and our Hidden Wholeness Buddha said: Life is suffering. Yes, human life, the human condition, is characterized by suffering. But, the Buddha did not just leave us with this first Nobel Truth. He went on to espouse three other Noble Truths: 2. That suffering has its causes […]

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I’d rather have your Appreciation (which would be nice but not necessary) than your Approval (which I don’t need)

Situation 1 A friend tries a dress on. She asks your opinion. You say either: A. It looks great on you. I love it. B. I like how it is so flattering. Situation 2 Your child puts his toys away without being told. You say either: A. Oh darling, thank you! That’s so nice. B.

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